Engineer Mentor Tips





Mentoring Tips
 
BE PATIENT:  Building trust takes time. A young person may not show it at first, but your help may be just what is needed. Be persistent.
 
PRAISE IS POWER:  A word of praise in a critical world works miracles in the life of a student.
 
SET BOUNDARIES:  Most mentoring relationships develop and flourish without problems. Occasionally, however, something comes up. Mentors have an important role, but this doesn't include replacing family or social service professionals. A mentor can help guide a young person to the appropriate source for additional help.
 
TRY TO UNDERSTAND A STUDENT'S VIEWPOINT:  Even if you don't share his or her point of view, trying to appreciate it shows you care.

CELEBRATE DIFFERENCES:  Experienced mentors report that working with a young person from a different background broadened their own horizons and deepened their understanding of other people and cultures. Sometimes it is the differences that make the difference.
 
BE HONEST:  Kids know adults aren't perfect. If you make mistakes, admit it. Say you're sorry. It's a skill a student may only learn from you.
 
BE THERE:  Just the sound of your concerned voice can make a big difference in the life of a sttudent.
 
BE POSITIVE:  Ask yourself, "What encouragement can I give if my young friend disappoints himself or herself?" Mentors are in the business of helping young people make the most of their lives. Allow the student to make a few "growing" mistakes when they learn new things.
 
BELIEVE:  Many students in our communities struggle with self-esteem. Your faith in them can be the greatest gift you can give.